Thursday, April 03, 2008

Platonic love

Platonic love in its modern popular sense is an affectionate relationship into which the sexual element does not enter, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise. A simple example of platonic relationships is friendship between two heterosexual people of the opposite sexes.

Can platonic Love exist? Really?
There are times when you just dun know what you should or shouldn do. There are times when you dun know if you should follow the heart or the mind. (EQ or IQ) your emotions or you intelligence.Talking about smart, when love stuck, there’s just no chance for the brain to function in the right manner anymore. Everything becomes so darn emotional.

Can you really have platonic love? I dun think I can. Not in a million years
Tell you what kind of person I am…or how I believe I am…
May not be who you think I am but pretty much 80:20 ratio

I’m just da kind of gal who likes challenge. Be it work, leisure, sports or relationship for da matter.At work I love to, at a certain degree take risk. I dun like being in da comfort zone, it just bores me to death. In sports I love the outdoors I just love the trill and excitement I get and the feeling of fulfillment is something money cant buy. So when it comes to relationship I tend to most of the time fall for people who tend to be very independent and self-reliant. This kind of people attracts me because getting to know them and finding out about them poses an intriguing challenge for me. Now here’s da set back, you cant fully know this other person. If you wan to start something serious with him it has gotta be based on your instinct and also the all-important vocabulary in relationship
TRUST

Trust. I place my trust on others easily. I tend to have a big heart. I forgive and I forget easily. “Yesterday will always be history, today will be a brand new day” that’s my motto in life. For those of you who knows me, you’ll see that even though you could have made me angry, sad and cry and all to a certain extend but the next week or so I would be talking to you again. Well that’s me. Now it doesn mean that I hav forgotten about the situation, it is just that I chose to forgive. And therefore when in a romantic relationship i tend to commit my whole heart, which makes me feel particularly vulnerable. All’s good and well if your instinct is right. So what happens when you placed your trust in that special someone and all hell breaks loose and you know you just can be with him…at least for now.

1st ly you call it quits. But he isn’t letting you go for some reason you still dun know. Remember we are dealing with a person who’s very independent and self-reliant, someone who’s always or most of the time mysterious. So you dun know why he still wants you when he shouldn’t. Oh..it’s just so complicated, dun even bother to ask for de details. Anyway…somehow…he suddenly feels bad…ok now he just wants to be friends but you still meet, you still are close but…platonic. Can someone tell me that this is possible because I find it very hard. Why hard, because you do sincerely cared for this soul. You still care YES..YES I still care. And deep down you know that this soul is one confuse soul…or maybe I just wan to think of it that way. Maybe I’m the confused party. Hands down!!

Oh well…There’s always a silver tint in every cloud. I shall be happy at all times no matter what. My reasoning…there will be someone out there for everyone.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

yes u can have a platonic love relationship but it hurts like hell. And it doesn't stop you pining for the person. Tough!

lorraine said...

YES! it's just so true.
It hurts so bad and you know it but still u cant do anything about it because you love and you care for your "fren"
Deep inside our hearts we will always hav this special "fren" in our hearts , eventhough we hav already moved on or even settled down.
Hard to believe...or you dun wan to believe...but just ask that inner voice in our hearts and..
BINGO!

Anonymous said...

spot on... sniff sniff... it's like putting a handyplas over a parang wound! Moved on? Have we, really? Just to let go alone is enough to squeeze the life out of you!

lorraine said...

Well i wonder if it's da same for the men?
I'm talking here from the female point of view. Wonder if it works both ways. If the guy actually feels the pain and the heartache like us female..Hmmm??

Anonymous said...

Only a handful i presumed... so far those that i met/ heard of are jerks... so, there u go! But thank God for gym - my 2nd home and place where I can vent out my frustrations/anger/disappointments/whatever especially in BC classes! Yeay! Kudos, BC!! Hooray!

lorraine said...

BC...no wonder I'm loving it so much!! Ha..ha..
BC really gives you the adrenaline rush. Any exercise for da matter.
Best of all when you punch and kick you get to release anger, stress and frustration.
I’m always contended when doing BC. Always.
Yeh…Girls go kick ass.

Anonymous said...

Hey Raine! How u doin'? It's me - Anonymous - tsk tsk...
I had one of the best workout in one the bc classes last week - it was great and i didn't realise i cld pushed myself further - know y? I imagined the fucked face of my lousy boss in front of me!